Adults only
You must be at least 18 years old to create an account or participate. Accounts believed to belong to minors may be restricted while age is reviewed and removed if the user is under 18.
Treat people like people
- Disagreement is allowed. Harassment, targeted humiliation, stalking, dogpiling, threats, and repeated unwanted contact are not.
- No hate speech or attacks based on race, ethnicity, nationality, religion, disability, sex, gender identity, sexual orientation, or other protected traits.
- Do not encourage others to harm, intimidate, or isolate another member.
This is not a dating or hookup service
Conversation matching is for finding someone who may be good to talk to. Do not use it to solicit dates, sex, romantic access, explicit images, or transactional intimacy.
- A match is not consent to private messages, voice contact, flirting, or continued conversation.
- If someone says no, stops replying, leaves, blocks you, or withdraws consent, the interaction ends.
Protect privacy
- Do not post another person’s name, address, phone number, workplace, school, private messages, images, or identifying details without permission.
- Never threaten to expose someone or share intimate content.
- Do not ask anonymous posters to reveal who they are or attempt to identify them.
Anonymous does not mean consequence-free
Anonymous posts hide your profile from other members. The service may still connect a post to an account for moderation, safety, fraud prevention, and lawful requests.
- Do not use anonymity to harass, impersonate, spread private information, evade a block, or make threats.
- Do not create extra accounts to avoid restrictions.
Keep sexual and exploitative content out
- No sexual exploitation, non-consensual intimate imagery, sexual violence content, grooming, trafficking, or content involving minors.
- No graphic sexual content, explicit sexual solicitation, or requests for nude images.
- No financial scams, manipulation, coercion, or offers to exchange money for personal or sexual access.
Self-harm, suicide, and crisis content
People may talk honestly about painful experiences, including grief, addiction, self-harm, and suicidal thoughts. Content that instructs, encourages, glorifies, or challenges someone to harm themselves or others is not allowed.
- If a post suggests immediate danger, moderators may limit it, provide crisis resources, or take other safety steps.
- SomeBitty + Candor is not a crisis service. In the U.S., call or text 988; call 911 for immediate danger.
No dangerous or deceptive behavior
- No credible threats, instructions for serious violence, illegal weapons sales, or promotion of terrorism or organized hate.
- No scams, phishing, malware, spam, fake fundraising, impersonation, or intentionally deceptive account behavior.
- Do not present medical, legal, or financial claims as professional advice when you are not qualified to provide it.
Moderation and consequences
We may remove content, reduce visibility, limit features, pause matching or voice access, warn, suspend, or permanently remove an account. Severity, context, history, safety risk, and attempts to evade enforcement all matter.